Friday, October 10, 2008

Life's A Bitch If You Let It Be

Have you ever asked someone what they had for lunch and they, roll their eyes and say something like, “I had Chicken Rice AGAIN.” And when you say to them if they don’t like it, why not have something else, they reply, “I don’t have a choice.” This is a load of rubbish – and believe me I’ve heard plenty of #$%^ speak in my lifetime.

Of course you have a choice!

You can decide to wake up a little earlier and make yourself a sandwich for one – or look for other places to try out. You can decide to make life simple, or choose to bitch about every single thing that comes your way. If things are not going well for you, grow a backbone and stop slithering about in self-pity. Pick yourself up and move forward.

Bad break in appointments? Stop all the crying and wallowing. Tell yourself you’re going to get really successful and win next company back – provided they’re worth the work you’ll be putting in. Otherwise, get successful for yourself. After all, success is the best revenge.

If your job is bringing you down, look for something else that you really want to do. Yes, it’s really that simple. Get out of your comfort zone. Change for the better is never easy – you need to challenge yourself and go through some rough patches in order for you to really appreciate all the good that is in your life. Once that happens, you’ll bitch less and be a nicer person to yourself and those around you.

abstracted from: http://erniechen.com

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